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Kind, clear, final.

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Sam, I've been trying to write this for a week, and the longer I wait the more I'm doing it for me instead of for us. So: I'm ending this. This isn't a decision I'm making lightly. The three years with you have been real. You showed me parts of myself I didn't know I had. I will always be grateful for that. But I have known for months that we don't want the same kind of life, and I haven't been honest about it. Staying any longer is doing both of us a quiet kind of harm. I'm not going to list reasons. We both know them. I'd rather end this with respect than with a list. Please take whatever you need from the apartment by the end of the month. I'll be at my sister's. I will not check in to see how you're doing right away — I don't think that's fair to either of us — but I do hope, sincerely, that you're okay. Thank you for the years. Take care of yourself. — Alex

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Sam, I've been trying to write this for a while, and the longer I wait the more I'm doing it for me instead of for us. So: I'm ending this. This isn't a decision I'm making lightly. The three years with you have been real. You showed me parts of myself I didn't know I had. I will always be grateful for that. But I have known for a while that we don't want the same kind of life, and I haven't been honest about it. Staying any longer is doing both of us a quiet kind of harm. I'm not going to list reasons. We both know them. I'd rather end this with respect than with an argument. Please take whatever you need from the apartment by the end of the month. I will not check in right away — I don't think that's fair to either of us — but I do hope, sincerely, that you're okay. Thank you for the years. Take care of yourself. — Alex

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Will it sound cold?: No — kindness and clarity, no equivocation. That's the whole goal.
Will it list reasons?: No. Reasons turn into arguments. The letter ends, dignified.
What does the breakup letter draft cost?: A one-time $7. There's no subscription and no account to create — you fill in the form, read a free preview of the opening, and pay only if it sounds right. The full draft is yours to keep, edit, and print.
How fast do I get my draft?: After Stripe confirms payment, the server generates your breakup letter from the submitted answers and returns it on the confirmation page. You can copy it, download it as plain text, or print it; delivery time can vary with the connection and any configured rewrite provider.
Can I edit the draft?: Yes. Your purchase includes a license to use, edit, print, and share the delivered draft for the purpose described in the terms. It arrives as plain text so you can review and change every line before using it.
Is my information private?: Your details are used only to draft and deliver your text and to process payment securely through Stripe. We don't keep a database of your personal details or sell them to anyone.

Kind, clear, final.

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